Post by: Sirgod on June 05, 2004, 11:35:36 am
Please understand that If I seem abit Loopey today, why.
Thanks all, and God Bless.
Stephen
Post by: S'Raek on June 05, 2004, 11:56:34 am
My prayers are with you and your family.
Post by: jualdeaux on June 05, 2004, 11:57:08 am
Post by: Sirgod on June 05, 2004, 11:57:36 am
Stephen
Post by: Iceman on June 05, 2004, 12:04:09 pm
There is nothing worse....nothing...that could have happened....anything I can do, anything at all, tell me please!
Post by: Stormbringer on June 05, 2004, 12:21:02 pm
You, your sister, your family all have my deepest sympathy. I grieve also. As always, if I can help let me know.
Post by: J. Carney on June 05, 2004, 12:28:36 pm
You'll be in our prayers over this way, man.
Post by: Sirgod on June 05, 2004, 12:37:58 pm
Stephen
Post by: Ryker on June 05, 2004, 12:44:01 pm
Post by: Dallas on June 05, 2004, 12:51:59 pm
Post by: Rat_Boy on June 05, 2004, 01:09:40 pm
Post by: Barabbas on June 05, 2004, 01:12:24 pm
I'm sorry, Steve.... I'll be praying for you and your family.
Post by: EE on June 05, 2004, 01:19:48 pm
Post by: Confused?? on June 05, 2004, 02:10:57 pm
Either way I am terribly sorry for the loss, and I hope those of us here can help.
Post by: Khalee on June 05, 2004, 02:26:31 pm
Post by: Sirgod on June 05, 2004, 02:41:16 pm
Stephen
Post by: Praxis on June 05, 2004, 03:06:11 pm
my condolenses My grandfather recently passed away, so I have somewhat of an idea of how you feel
Post by: TB613 on June 05, 2004, 03:20:00 pm
Post by: Confused?? on June 05, 2004, 05:03:16 pm
Post by: Dash Jones on June 05, 2004, 05:19:05 pm
Post by: Captain Krenn on June 05, 2004, 05:19:49 pm
Its not been a good day all around.
Post by: Sethan on June 05, 2004, 05:36:48 pm
Quote:
Thanks again guys. Yes this was my Nephew Skyler, Born on the 14th of February this year. I did a search here about the Pics I posted from the Hospital, But couldn't find the link for that day.
Here you go, Stephen. Toasty0 kept a copy.
Post by: SL-Punisher on June 05, 2004, 05:38:21 pm
My thoughts are with you and your family.
Post by: Sirgod on June 05, 2004, 05:42:49 pm
Stephen
Post by: Sarek on June 05, 2004, 07:06:56 pm
Post by: Sirgod on June 05, 2004, 07:36:43 pm
I can recall how bad I felt for My Friend Wulguru when his Nephew died, But untill your there, One can never really relate. For that I am sorry Kenneth.
Stephen
Post by: msnevil on June 05, 2004, 07:51:10 pm
I can't imagine what you and your family are going through. If there is anything we can do for your family. Let us know.
I sent some sympathy flowers your way. Courtesy of Mike and Sara Nevil. And the taldren members.
Post by: Sirgod on June 05, 2004, 07:56:40 pm
On Monday, I will try and Set up something with a SID's Organization for Donations to be made in Skylers name. It's the least I can do right now, as Everything is kinda closed untill Monday.
I know I'm once again rambling from post to post, But again, I'm finding that I do in fact have an extended family here.
I'll try and see If I can't get a website up also with pictures of the Baby if for nothing else, My own sanity.
Stephen
Post by: RogueJedi_XC on June 05, 2004, 08:11:11 pm
Post by: Kmelew on June 05, 2004, 09:27:49 pm
I am so very sorry for your family's loss. My prayers are with all of you in your time of sorrow.
Post by: Gambler on June 05, 2004, 10:03:55 pm
Post by: E_Look on June 05, 2004, 10:38:13 pm
It was a horrible feeling. I don't know know what to say to you and your sister... a teardrop for the Mom and Dad and the poor baby.
Post by: Matsukasi on June 05, 2004, 11:05:38 pm
Post by: Ravok on June 05, 2004, 11:52:26 pm
Post by: lloyd007 on June 06, 2004, 01:53:33 am
Post by: SghnDubh on June 06, 2004, 01:56:19 am
Sorry, bud. My thoughts are to you & yours.
Post by: Javora on June 06, 2004, 08:38:55 am
Javora
Post by: Merlinfmct87 on June 06, 2004, 02:51:41 pm
I don't know, what is the proper noise to make?
I'll say what is in my heart then: SirGod, the pain you are feeling is something that no body can even begin to understate unless they lost a child--and the only thing that does is demonstrate that each one's loss is unique and painful in it's own way. So no one can relate to the pain you and your sister are feeling.
This does not mean that you are alone, however. Don't be afraid to reach out to your family and your friends here on this fourm, and don't be afraid to stay alone when you need to. This pain won't go away, just as your love of him would not go away, but you will move on nonetheless.
This news has caught me off-guard, as it always does. I can only say this: Celebrate his life. It might have been short, but it was obviously around good people and loving parents, and he obviously gave you much love.
Don't forget that.
I'll light a candle for you tonight SirGod
Post by: TheShadow on June 06, 2004, 04:39:47 pm
All my sympathies Stephen.
Will
Post by: The_Joker on June 06, 2004, 11:29:16 pm
Post by: Netman on June 07, 2004, 12:48:26 am
Post by: Rondo_GE on June 07, 2004, 02:37:25 am
I am very sorry SG for your whole family.
Post by: Dracho on June 07, 2004, 10:08:36 am
Post by: Wulgaru on June 07, 2004, 10:45:19 am
I'm truly sorry to hear of your families loss, and my thoughts are with you. As you mentioned my family had a similar experiance recently, and as such I can understand how you feel. It's very strange to have to deal with the death of one so young, and the best you can do is be there for your sister.
Once again, my condolences to your family...i'll keep you all in my thoughts.
Post by: IndyShark on June 07, 2004, 11:07:57 am
Post by: Lono on June 07, 2004, 01:13:34 pm
SirGod,
Amy and I are so sorry to hear about your loss.
We will keep your family in our prayers tonight.
May God bless you with peace and strength durring this difficult time.
Post by: SSCF Hooch on June 07, 2004, 04:48:52 pm
Hooch
Post by: AlienLXIX on June 07, 2004, 08:01:53 pm
Keep the faith my friend. We will light a fire for your nephew tonight.
Blessed Be Stephen.
Aloha
Amy Smith
Post by: Sirgod on June 07, 2004, 10:36:41 pm
They say If you have one true friend in this world, your Lucky. With You guys, and Gals, I feel like the luckiest man in the world. I'm working on Setting up a Memorial Service for sometime this week. I paid to have Skyler Cremated yesterday, and I believe his body was released today to the Funeral home.
Of course I'll post here When The time is, as I know I have a few Friends here in the state.
Once again, Thank you all For friendship, Kindness, and anything else I can't remember at this time.
Stephen
Post by: Khalee on June 07, 2004, 11:34:01 pm
Post by: Stormbringer on June 07, 2004, 11:58:04 pm
Post by: Sethan on June 08, 2004, 12:32:52 am
I'm still not sure I have the right words, but my heart goes out to you and yours, and I will do my best to say what I mean.
I know you've had to be strong for your family - someone had to be, and that is a burden which fell on your shoulders - but once what has to be done is done, take the time to grieve with them too. They will need that from you then as much as they needed you to be strong when someone had to be - and you need to be able to grieve too, with people who understand how close to Skyler you were.
Grief shared is grief diminished.
Post by: ferretlxix on June 08, 2004, 12:40:46 am
I wish I caught this one earlier! I wish there is something I could truely say to help but, in all truth Sethan stole the boat.
And it not a bad thing because I think for the most part, that is how much we all think.
You're a great guy and if there is anything I can help you with, just call.
Steve
Post by: GE-Raven on June 08, 2004, 10:47:00 am
God Bless you and your family.
Sean
Post by: Khalee on June 08, 2004, 01:32:36 pm
If you dont want to display it here you could pm me.
Post by: AlienLXIX on June 08, 2004, 01:34:29 pm
Quote:
If I may ask what is your whole address please, So I can send a symapthy card Its about all I can do Im afraid.
If you dont want to display it here you could pm me.
Do add me to your pm! We also would like to send something.
Post by: Sirgod on June 08, 2004, 01:59:30 pm
My Address is 1443 NW 29th Street. OKC, OK, 73106.
I will be holding a Memorial at my Son's and Daughter in laws house on Saturday around 1:00 pm. I'm trying to finalize the final details, and get everything Set.
Sethan, One of my dearest friends. I promise you I will grieve in time. Once again, I had to be strong today, as The Remains where Brought to my house this morning. I set up a small area on our Manual, and Have recieved so many cards already.
I want to thank you all for your kindness, And I'll try to call each and everyone as time Permits. It's just been a very Long week so far.
God Bless you all.
Stephen
Post by: Khalee on June 08, 2004, 04:36:15 pm
Post by: Sirgod on June 08, 2004, 09:22:35 pm
It will be on Saturday at 1:00 Pm, at My Son's house. However, I still don't have the address, as I just usually go there. It's an Okie thing.
If anyone is planning on coming, Please show up at My house by noon, so we can All travel together.
In many way's, your as much a part of this family as my own Flesh and Blood. Simply Because so many of you went through this whole thing with me and mine for the last 6 months.
Stephen And Denise Smith.
Post by: manitoba on June 09, 2004, 03:03:34 am
Post by: LongTooth on June 09, 2004, 04:54:53 am
Post by: AlienLXIX on June 09, 2004, 06:32:38 pm
Post by: Sirgod on June 09, 2004, 10:24:17 pm
alien what you did was Very Kind to say the least. I believe next month, My wife and I will take a trip to Hawaii, If for nothing else, To get away from It all, suspend Belief, and To Basicly give our selves a break. If I can make arrangments with JMM I will also Visit Mexico.
I know this sounds Very Immature my friends, But we need a break away from Alot of stress.
the most important thing right now though is my sister and her loss.
Stephen
Post by: Merlinfmct87 on June 10, 2004, 12:11:26 am
IMMATURE?!
You have suffered a terrible loss SirGod, I don't have to tell you that. A little suspension of reality is not only healty, in your case it's required. You need some time and seperation to deal with the sucking chest wound you have in your soul.
Even Doctors give morphene to patience under surgery. I see no reason why you should feel exempt from that precedent. The only caution I would say is make sure you don't get hooked on it, you have to come back.
But if you have made it this far you already know that, moreover, you won't let yourself do that for your sister's sake.
Summary: Feel no guilt about the time away from the house. You have already shown great strength in this matter, and it is time you focused on healing.
Take care,
Merlin
Post by: AlienLXIX on June 10, 2004, 02:29:02 am
Quote:
Immature?
IMMATURE?!
You have suffered a terrible loss SirGod, I don't have to tell you that. A little suspension of reality is not only healty, in your case it's required. You need some time and seperation to deal with the sucking chest wound you have in your soul.
Even Doctors give morphene to patience under surgery. I see no reason why you should feel exempt from that precedent. The only caution I would say is make sure you don't get hooked on it, you have to come back.
But if you have made it this far you already know that, moreover, you won't let yourself do that for your sister's sake.
Summary: Feel no guilt about the time away from the house. You have already shown great strength in this matter, and it is time you focused on healing.
Take care,
Merlin
My sentements also! Please feel free to come! You will at least have a roof over your heads! Just give us a heads up and then we can plan what you want to do or not do. Anything to help you heal, man.
Post by: Sirgod on June 05, 2004, 11:35:36 am
Please understand that If I seem abit Loopey today, why.
Thanks all, and God Bless.
Stephen
Post by: S'Raek on June 05, 2004, 11:56:34 am
My prayers are with you and your family.
Post by: jualdeaux on June 05, 2004, 11:57:08 am
Post by: Sirgod on June 05, 2004, 11:57:36 am
Stephen
Post by: Iceman on June 05, 2004, 12:04:09 pm
There is nothing worse....nothing...that could have happened....anything I can do, anything at all, tell me please!
Post by: Stormbringer on June 05, 2004, 12:21:02 pm
You, your sister, your family all have my deepest sympathy. I grieve also. As always, if I can help let me know.
Post by: J. Carney on June 05, 2004, 12:28:36 pm
You'll be in our prayers over this way, man.
Post by: Sirgod on June 05, 2004, 12:37:58 pm
Stephen
Post by: Ryker on June 05, 2004, 12:44:01 pm
Post by: Dallas on June 05, 2004, 12:51:59 pm
Post by: Rat_Boy on June 05, 2004, 01:09:40 pm
Post by: Barabbas on June 05, 2004, 01:12:24 pm
I'm sorry, Steve.... I'll be praying for you and your family.
Post by: EE on June 05, 2004, 01:19:48 pm
Post by: Confused?? on June 05, 2004, 02:10:57 pm
Either way I am terribly sorry for the loss, and I hope those of us here can help.
Post by: Khalee on June 05, 2004, 02:26:31 pm
Post by: Sirgod on June 05, 2004, 02:41:16 pm
Stephen
Post by: Praxis on June 05, 2004, 03:06:11 pm
my condolenses My grandfather recently passed away, so I have somewhat of an idea of how you feel
Post by: TB613 on June 05, 2004, 03:20:00 pm
Post by: Confused?? on June 05, 2004, 05:03:16 pm
Post by: Dash Jones on June 05, 2004, 05:19:05 pm
Post by: Captain Krenn on June 05, 2004, 05:19:49 pm
Its not been a good day all around.
Post by: Sethan on June 05, 2004, 05:36:48 pm
Quote:
Thanks again guys. Yes this was my Nephew Skyler, Born on the 14th of February this year. I did a search here about the Pics I posted from the Hospital, But couldn't find the link for that day.
Here you go, Stephen. Toasty0 kept a copy.
Post by: SL-Punisher on June 05, 2004, 05:38:21 pm
My thoughts are with you and your family.
Post by: Sirgod on June 05, 2004, 05:42:49 pm
Stephen
Post by: Sarek on June 05, 2004, 07:06:56 pm
Post by: Sirgod on June 05, 2004, 07:36:43 pm
I can recall how bad I felt for My Friend Wulguru when his Nephew died, But untill your there, One can never really relate. For that I am sorry Kenneth.
Stephen
Post by: msnevil on June 05, 2004, 07:51:10 pm
I can't imagine what you and your family are going through. If there is anything we can do for your family. Let us know.
I sent some sympathy flowers your way. Courtesy of Mike and Sara Nevil. And the taldren members.
Post by: Sirgod on June 05, 2004, 07:56:40 pm
On Monday, I will try and Set up something with a SID's Organization for Donations to be made in Skylers name. It's the least I can do right now, as Everything is kinda closed untill Monday.
I know I'm once again rambling from post to post, But again, I'm finding that I do in fact have an extended family here.
I'll try and see If I can't get a website up also with pictures of the Baby if for nothing else, My own sanity.
Stephen
Post by: RogueJedi_XC on June 05, 2004, 08:11:11 pm
Post by: Kmelew on June 05, 2004, 09:27:49 pm
I am so very sorry for your family's loss. My prayers are with all of you in your time of sorrow.
Post by: Gambler on June 05, 2004, 10:03:55 pm
Post by: E_Look on June 05, 2004, 10:38:13 pm
It was a horrible feeling. I don't know know what to say to you and your sister... a teardrop for the Mom and Dad and the poor baby.
Post by: Matsukasi on June 05, 2004, 11:05:38 pm
Post by: Ravok on June 05, 2004, 11:52:26 pm
Post by: lloyd007 on June 06, 2004, 01:53:33 am
Post by: SghnDubh on June 06, 2004, 01:56:19 am
Sorry, bud. My thoughts are to you & yours.
Post by: Javora on June 06, 2004, 08:38:55 am
Javora
Post by: Merlinfmct87 on June 06, 2004, 02:51:41 pm
I don't know, what is the proper noise to make?
I'll say what is in my heart then: SirGod, the pain you are feeling is something that no body can even begin to understate unless they lost a child--and the only thing that does is demonstrate that each one's loss is unique and painful in it's own way. So no one can relate to the pain you and your sister are feeling.
This does not mean that you are alone, however. Don't be afraid to reach out to your family and your friends here on this fourm, and don't be afraid to stay alone when you need to. This pain won't go away, just as your love of him would not go away, but you will move on nonetheless.
This news has caught me off-guard, as it always does. I can only say this: Celebrate his life. It might have been short, but it was obviously around good people and loving parents, and he obviously gave you much love.
Don't forget that.
I'll light a candle for you tonight SirGod
Post by: TheShadow on June 06, 2004, 04:39:47 pm
All my sympathies Stephen.
Will
Post by: The_Joker on June 06, 2004, 11:29:16 pm
Post by: Netman on June 07, 2004, 12:48:26 am
Post by: Rondo_GE on June 07, 2004, 02:37:25 am
I am very sorry SG for your whole family.
Post by: Dracho on June 07, 2004, 10:08:36 am
Post by: Wulgaru on June 07, 2004, 10:45:19 am
I'm truly sorry to hear of your families loss, and my thoughts are with you. As you mentioned my family had a similar experiance recently, and as such I can understand how you feel. It's very strange to have to deal with the death of one so young, and the best you can do is be there for your sister.
Once again, my condolences to your family...i'll keep you all in my thoughts.
Post by: IndyShark on June 07, 2004, 11:07:57 am
Post by: Lono on June 07, 2004, 01:13:34 pm
SirGod,
Amy and I are so sorry to hear about your loss.
We will keep your family in our prayers tonight.
May God bless you with peace and strength durring this difficult time.
Post by: SSCF Hooch on June 07, 2004, 04:48:52 pm
Hooch
Post by: AlienLXIX on June 07, 2004, 08:01:53 pm
Keep the faith my friend. We will light a fire for your nephew tonight.
Blessed Be Stephen.
Aloha
Amy Smith
Post by: Sirgod on June 07, 2004, 10:36:41 pm
They say If you have one true friend in this world, your Lucky. With You guys, and Gals, I feel like the luckiest man in the world. I'm working on Setting up a Memorial Service for sometime this week. I paid to have Skyler Cremated yesterday, and I believe his body was released today to the Funeral home.
Of course I'll post here When The time is, as I know I have a few Friends here in the state.
Once again, Thank you all For friendship, Kindness, and anything else I can't remember at this time.
Stephen
Post by: Khalee on June 07, 2004, 11:34:01 pm
Post by: Stormbringer on June 07, 2004, 11:58:04 pm
Post by: Sethan on June 08, 2004, 12:32:52 am
I'm still not sure I have the right words, but my heart goes out to you and yours, and I will do my best to say what I mean.
I know you've had to be strong for your family - someone had to be, and that is a burden which fell on your shoulders - but once what has to be done is done, take the time to grieve with them too. They will need that from you then as much as they needed you to be strong when someone had to be - and you need to be able to grieve too, with people who understand how close to Skyler you were.
Grief shared is grief diminished.
Post by: ferretlxix on June 08, 2004, 12:40:46 am
I wish I caught this one earlier! I wish there is something I could truely say to help but, in all truth Sethan stole the boat.
And it not a bad thing because I think for the most part, that is how much we all think.
You're a great guy and if there is anything I can help you with, just call.
Steve
Post by: GE-Raven on June 08, 2004, 10:47:00 am
God Bless you and your family.
Sean
Post by: Khalee on June 08, 2004, 01:32:36 pm
If you dont want to display it here you could pm me.
Post by: AlienLXIX on June 08, 2004, 01:34:29 pm
Quote:
If I may ask what is your whole address please, So I can send a symapthy card Its about all I can do Im afraid.
If you dont want to display it here you could pm me.
Do add me to your pm! We also would like to send something.
Post by: Sirgod on June 08, 2004, 01:59:30 pm
My Address is 1443 NW 29th Street. OKC, OK, 73106.
I will be holding a Memorial at my Son's and Daughter in laws house on Saturday around 1:00 pm. I'm trying to finalize the final details, and get everything Set.
Sethan, One of my dearest friends. I promise you I will grieve in time. Once again, I had to be strong today, as The Remains where Brought to my house this morning. I set up a small area on our Manual, and Have recieved so many cards already.
I want to thank you all for your kindness, And I'll try to call each and everyone as time Permits. It's just been a very Long week so far.
God Bless you all.
Stephen
Post by: Khalee on June 08, 2004, 04:36:15 pm
Post by: Sirgod on June 08, 2004, 09:22:35 pm
It will be on Saturday at 1:00 Pm, at My Son's house. However, I still don't have the address, as I just usually go there. It's an Okie thing.
If anyone is planning on coming, Please show up at My house by noon, so we can All travel together.
In many way's, your as much a part of this family as my own Flesh and Blood. Simply Because so many of you went through this whole thing with me and mine for the last 6 months.
Stephen And Denise Smith.
Post by: manitoba on June 09, 2004, 03:03:34 am
Post by: LongTooth on June 09, 2004, 04:54:53 am
Post by: AlienLXIX on June 09, 2004, 06:32:38 pm
Post by: Sirgod on June 09, 2004, 10:24:17 pm
alien what you did was Very Kind to say the least. I believe next month, My wife and I will take a trip to Hawaii, If for nothing else, To get away from It all, suspend Belief, and To Basicly give our selves a break. If I can make arrangments with JMM I will also Visit Mexico.
I know this sounds Very Immature my friends, But we need a break away from Alot of stress.
the most important thing right now though is my sister and her loss.
Stephen
Post by: Merlinfmct87 on June 10, 2004, 12:11:26 am
IMMATURE?!
You have suffered a terrible loss SirGod, I don't have to tell you that. A little suspension of reality is not only healty, in your case it's required. You need some time and seperation to deal with the sucking chest wound you have in your soul.
Even Doctors give morphene to patience under surgery. I see no reason why you should feel exempt from that precedent. The only caution I would say is make sure you don't get hooked on it, you have to come back.
But if you have made it this far you already know that, moreover, you won't let yourself do that for your sister's sake.
Summary: Feel no guilt about the time away from the house. You have already shown great strength in this matter, and it is time you focused on healing.
Take care,
Merlin
Post by: AlienLXIX on June 10, 2004, 02:29:02 am
Quote:
Immature?
IMMATURE?!
You have suffered a terrible loss SirGod, I don't have to tell you that. A little suspension of reality is not only healty, in your case it's required. You need some time and seperation to deal with the sucking chest wound you have in your soul.
Even Doctors give morphene to patience under surgery. I see no reason why you should feel exempt from that precedent. The only caution I would say is make sure you don't get hooked on it, you have to come back.
But if you have made it this far you already know that, moreover, you won't let yourself do that for your sister's sake.
Summary: Feel no guilt about the time away from the house. You have already shown great strength in this matter, and it is time you focused on healing.
Take care,
Merlin
My sentements also! Please feel free to come! You will at least have a roof over your heads! Just give us a heads up and then we can plan what you want to do or not do. Anything to help you heal, man.
Post by: Sirgod on June 05, 2004, 11:35:36 am
Please understand that If I seem abit Loopey today, why.
Thanks all, and God Bless.
Stephen
Post by: S'Raek on June 05, 2004, 11:56:34 am
My prayers are with you and your family.
Post by: jualdeaux on June 05, 2004, 11:57:08 am
Post by: Sirgod on June 05, 2004, 11:57:36 am
Stephen
Post by: Iceman on June 05, 2004, 12:04:09 pm
There is nothing worse....nothing...that could have happened....anything I can do, anything at all, tell me please!
Post by: Stormbringer on June 05, 2004, 12:21:02 pm
You, your sister, your family all have my deepest sympathy. I grieve also. As always, if I can help let me know.
Post by: J. Carney on June 05, 2004, 12:28:36 pm
You'll be in our prayers over this way, man.
Post by: Sirgod on June 05, 2004, 12:37:58 pm
Stephen
Post by: Ryker on June 05, 2004, 12:44:01 pm
Post by: Dallas on June 05, 2004, 12:51:59 pm
Post by: Rat_Boy on June 05, 2004, 01:09:40 pm
Post by: Barabbas on June 05, 2004, 01:12:24 pm
I'm sorry, Steve.... I'll be praying for you and your family.
Post by: EE on June 05, 2004, 01:19:48 pm
Post by: Confused?? on June 05, 2004, 02:10:57 pm
Either way I am terribly sorry for the loss, and I hope those of us here can help.
Post by: Khalee on June 05, 2004, 02:26:31 pm
Post by: Sirgod on June 05, 2004, 02:41:16 pm
Stephen
Post by: Praxis on June 05, 2004, 03:06:11 pm
my condolenses My grandfather recently passed away, so I have somewhat of an idea of how you feel
Post by: TB613 on June 05, 2004, 03:20:00 pm
Post by: Confused?? on June 05, 2004, 05:03:16 pm
Post by: Dash Jones on June 05, 2004, 05:19:05 pm
Post by: Captain Krenn on June 05, 2004, 05:19:49 pm
Its not been a good day all around.
Post by: Sethan on June 05, 2004, 05:36:48 pm
Quote:
Thanks again guys. Yes this was my Nephew Skyler, Born on the 14th of February this year. I did a search here about the Pics I posted from the Hospital, But couldn't find the link for that day.
Here you go, Stephen. Toasty0 kept a copy.
Post by: SL-Punisher on June 05, 2004, 05:38:21 pm
My thoughts are with you and your family.
Post by: Sirgod on June 05, 2004, 05:42:49 pm
Stephen
Post by: Sarek on June 05, 2004, 07:06:56 pm
Post by: Sirgod on June 05, 2004, 07:36:43 pm
I can recall how bad I felt for My Friend Wulguru when his Nephew died, But untill your there, One can never really relate. For that I am sorry Kenneth.
Stephen
Post by: msnevil on June 05, 2004, 07:51:10 pm
I can't imagine what you and your family are going through. If there is anything we can do for your family. Let us know.
I sent some sympathy flowers your way. Courtesy of Mike and Sara Nevil. And the taldren members.
Post by: Sirgod on June 05, 2004, 07:56:40 pm
On Monday, I will try and Set up something with a SID's Organization for Donations to be made in Skylers name. It's the least I can do right now, as Everything is kinda closed untill Monday.
I know I'm once again rambling from post to post, But again, I'm finding that I do in fact have an extended family here.
I'll try and see If I can't get a website up also with pictures of the Baby if for nothing else, My own sanity.
Stephen
Post by: RogueJedi_XC on June 05, 2004, 08:11:11 pm
Post by: Kmelew on June 05, 2004, 09:27:49 pm
I am so very sorry for your family's loss. My prayers are with all of you in your time of sorrow.
Post by: Gambler on June 05, 2004, 10:03:55 pm
Post by: E_Look on June 05, 2004, 10:38:13 pm
It was a horrible feeling. I don't know know what to say to you and your sister... a teardrop for the Mom and Dad and the poor baby.
Post by: Matsukasi on June 05, 2004, 11:05:38 pm
Post by: Ravok on June 05, 2004, 11:52:26 pm
Post by: lloyd007 on June 06, 2004, 01:53:33 am
Post by: SghnDubh on June 06, 2004, 01:56:19 am
Sorry, bud. My thoughts are to you & yours.
Post by: Javora on June 06, 2004, 08:38:55 am
Javora
Post by: Merlinfmct87 on June 06, 2004, 02:51:41 pm
I don't know, what is the proper noise to make?
I'll say what is in my heart then: SirGod, the pain you are feeling is something that no body can even begin to understate unless they lost a child--and the only thing that does is demonstrate that each one's loss is unique and painful in it's own way. So no one can relate to the pain you and your sister are feeling.
This does not mean that you are alone, however. Don't be afraid to reach out to your family and your friends here on this fourm, and don't be afraid to stay alone when you need to. This pain won't go away, just as your love of him would not go away, but you will move on nonetheless.
This news has caught me off-guard, as it always does. I can only say this: Celebrate his life. It might have been short, but it was obviously around good people and loving parents, and he obviously gave you much love.
Don't forget that.
I'll light a candle for you tonight SirGod
Post by: TheShadow on June 06, 2004, 04:39:47 pm
All my sympathies Stephen.
Will
Post by: The_Joker on June 06, 2004, 11:29:16 pm
Post by: Netman on June 07, 2004, 12:48:26 am
Post by: Rondo_GE on June 07, 2004, 02:37:25 am
I am very sorry SG for your whole family.
Post by: Dracho on June 07, 2004, 10:08:36 am
Post by: Wulgaru on June 07, 2004, 10:45:19 am
I'm truly sorry to hear of your families loss, and my thoughts are with you. As you mentioned my family had a similar experiance recently, and as such I can understand how you feel. It's very strange to have to deal with the death of one so young, and the best you can do is be there for your sister.
Once again, my condolences to your family...i'll keep you all in my thoughts.
Post by: IndyShark on June 07, 2004, 11:07:57 am
Post by: Lono on June 07, 2004, 01:13:34 pm
SirGod,
Amy and I are so sorry to hear about your loss.
We will keep your family in our prayers tonight.
May God bless you with peace and strength durring this difficult time.
Post by: SSCF Hooch on June 07, 2004, 04:48:52 pm
Hooch
Post by: AlienLXIX on June 07, 2004, 08:01:53 pm
Keep the faith my friend. We will light a fire for your nephew tonight.
Blessed Be Stephen.
Aloha
Amy Smith
Post by: Sirgod on June 07, 2004, 10:36:41 pm
They say If you have one true friend in this world, your Lucky. With You guys, and Gals, I feel like the luckiest man in the world. I'm working on Setting up a Memorial Service for sometime this week. I paid to have Skyler Cremated yesterday, and I believe his body was released today to the Funeral home.
Of course I'll post here When The time is, as I know I have a few Friends here in the state.
Once again, Thank you all For friendship, Kindness, and anything else I can't remember at this time.
Stephen
Post by: Khalee on June 07, 2004, 11:34:01 pm
Post by: Stormbringer on June 07, 2004, 11:58:04 pm
Post by: Sethan on June 08, 2004, 12:32:52 am
I'm still not sure I have the right words, but my heart goes out to you and yours, and I will do my best to say what I mean.
I know you've had to be strong for your family - someone had to be, and that is a burden which fell on your shoulders - but once what has to be done is done, take the time to grieve with them too. They will need that from you then as much as they needed you to be strong when someone had to be - and you need to be able to grieve too, with people who understand how close to Skyler you were.
Grief shared is grief diminished.
Post by: ferretlxix on June 08, 2004, 12:40:46 am
I wish I caught this one earlier! I wish there is something I could truely say to help but, in all truth Sethan stole the boat.
And it not a bad thing because I think for the most part, that is how much we all think.
You're a great guy and if there is anything I can help you with, just call.
Steve
Post by: GE-Raven on June 08, 2004, 10:47:00 am
God Bless you and your family.
Sean
Post by: Khalee on June 08, 2004, 01:32:36 pm
If you dont want to display it here you could pm me.
Post by: AlienLXIX on June 08, 2004, 01:34:29 pm
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If I may ask what is your whole address please, So I can send a symapthy card Its about all I can do Im afraid.
If you dont want to display it here you could pm me.
Do add me to your pm! We also would like to send something.
Post by: Sirgod on June 08, 2004, 01:59:30 pm
My Address is 1443 NW 29th Street. OKC, OK, 73106.
I will be holding a Memorial at my Son's and Daughter in laws house on Saturday around 1:00 pm. I'm trying to finalize the final details, and get everything Set.
Sethan, One of my dearest friends. I promise you I will grieve in time. Once again, I had to be strong today, as The Remains where Brought to my house this morning. I set up a small area on our Manual, and Have recieved so many cards already.
I want to thank you all for your kindness, And I'll try to call each and everyone as time Permits. It's just been a very Long week so far.
God Bless you all.
Stephen
Post by: Khalee on June 08, 2004, 04:36:15 pm
Post by: Sirgod on June 08, 2004, 09:22:35 pm
It will be on Saturday at 1:00 Pm, at My Son's house. However, I still don't have the address, as I just usually go there. It's an Okie thing.
If anyone is planning on coming, Please show up at My house by noon, so we can All travel together.
In many way's, your as much a part of this family as my own Flesh and Blood. Simply Because so many of you went through this whole thing with me and mine for the last 6 months.
Stephen And Denise Smith.
Post by: manitoba on June 09, 2004, 03:03:34 am
Post by: LongTooth on June 09, 2004, 04:54:53 am
Post by: AlienLXIX on June 09, 2004, 06:32:38 pm
Post by: Sirgod on June 09, 2004, 10:24:17 pm
alien what you did was Very Kind to say the least. I believe next month, My wife and I will take a trip to Hawaii, If for nothing else, To get away from It all, suspend Belief, and To Basicly give our selves a break. If I can make arrangments with JMM I will also Visit Mexico.
I know this sounds Very Immature my friends, But we need a break away from Alot of stress.
the most important thing right now though is my sister and her loss.
Stephen
Post by: Merlinfmct87 on June 10, 2004, 12:11:26 am
IMMATURE?!
You have suffered a terrible loss SirGod, I don't have to tell you that. A little suspension of reality is not only healty, in your case it's required. You need some time and seperation to deal with the sucking chest wound you have in your soul.
Even Doctors give morphene to patience under surgery. I see no reason why you should feel exempt from that precedent. The only caution I would say is make sure you don't get hooked on it, you have to come back.
But if you have made it this far you already know that, moreover, you won't let yourself do that for your sister's sake.
Summary: Feel no guilt about the time away from the house. You have already shown great strength in this matter, and it is time you focused on healing.
Take care,
Merlin
Post by: AlienLXIX on June 10, 2004, 02:29:02 am
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Immature?
IMMATURE?!
You have suffered a terrible loss SirGod, I don't have to tell you that. A little suspension of reality is not only healty, in your case it's required. You need some time and seperation to deal with the sucking chest wound you have in your soul.
Even Doctors give morphene to patience under surgery. I see no reason why you should feel exempt from that precedent. The only caution I would say is make sure you don't get hooked on it, you have to come back.
But if you have made it this far you already know that, moreover, you won't let yourself do that for your sister's sake.
Summary: Feel no guilt about the time away from the house. You have already shown great strength in this matter, and it is time you focused on healing.
Take care,
Merlin
My sentements also! Please feel free to come! You will at least have a roof over your heads! Just give us a heads up and then we can plan what you want to do or not do. Anything to help you heal, man.